There is supposed to be a geo heat map on my dating adventures, which I have ignored so far. Although in the last few weeks, I became very familiar with why this map should probably exist.
Right now my bandwidth is one guy at a time, which also means not turning back to what was before. Juggling multiple guys at same time sounds awful. If we were together, I can still see you socially and enjoy a good time with you yet I am not going back.
Fun means fun as I am still not looking for a relationship right now. I am straight shooter, no bullshit, no games. I tell it as I see it and I am brutally honest about these adventures in dating.
If my attention is on you, it is your choice whether to accept it. If my attention is on you, then you can trust that I am not crossing lines with anyone else even if you see me flirting or acting happy in social settings.
Also, I am not directing attention to guys that aren’t interesting to me as I have no desire to be heart breaker.
I was monogamous for 16 years, so this whole dating thing is wildly new to me and apparently my propensity is more serial monogamy than player.
My business and personal goals come first right now, which means guys fit in where they do and right now that means one at a time.