This so-called life has opened me up to all new possibilities and a world of authenticity. This means that I am candid in all aspects of my life and my friends and family are becoming decidedly more candid with me in kind.
A few months ago, I may or may not have tagged a 7 yr old boy while playing soccer in an unfortunate spot. This boy is blunt to say the least, he’s got a fabulous nickname to boot.
In addition to letting me know that I could play soccer with him as long as I did not kick him in the nuts again, he began calling me “feisty wiener kicker.” It stuck, badly (???), but it is kinda true in this new life.
Then he saw my keychain, which says “be kind,” and said, “be kind, feisty wiener kicker,” and I liked that more.
Embracing this new life has come with challenges along the way. Learning myself, learning others. Being inquisitive while having others be inquisitive with me. Recently, I had a relatively new friend ask me what they should know about me. I came up with this:
Competitive as fuck
When I know what I want, watch out
Oh and one more for me is I am an open book, which makes the whole dating guys who read into me hard. If you want to know, ask me and I will tell you.
Subsequently, I came up with a list about the type of guy I seek, which had been evolving after the year of flings:
As with any list that I create, these are subject to change, but I think I am starting to finally feel like myself and know what I want in this life.
Areli this one is for you. I promised I would write and I did.