A question that pops up quite frequently: when did you know?
1/13….of 2005 and really knew 1/13/2017. After I read the letter to my ex that I wanted the counselor to help us navigate a guided divorce, the couple’s counselor asked me if I wanted a guided separation. I answered with certainty that I really wanted a guided divorce.
Heartbreaking to know that a separation would not fix us, we were irrevocably broken, there was no turning back. Heck, I got a tattoo before I told my ex knowing that I needed a permanent reminder that I was making the right decision for me.